To my potential partner,

I'm sitting in a coffee shop in Spain writing this, hoping it speaks to you like the lofty aroma of a fresh coffee in the morning. I want this to rejuvenate and heighten the senses (in many ways) and inspire a start of a new day. For me, I made the decision to move abroad based on a desire I've had close to a decade ago and I can't help but feel alive. This is my first time living in Europe since 2015. I am originally from a small shore town in New Jersey and have lived in the East Coast for the majority of my life. I want more out of life and perhaps that can include you?

I've been involved on and off in the BDSM world since I was 20, starting with munches in NJ and dungeon clubs in NYC. I've always been naturally curious and from the very beginning I've always felt learning about oneself was paramount.The first person I ever met in the scene was a sadist with decades of experience who gave me a hands-on introduction to impact play. On my order of what I'm knowledgable on the most I'd say it goes like this; Impact Play, sensory deprivation, orgasm denial, wax play, and rope. Typically, I've stuck with things that I can actively do in the bedroom and things that correlate to my personality. I work best when I can really connect with someone and am not shy of exhibitionism.

I enjoy the chase of knowing I caught you and that extends to my absolute enjoyment of using my hands in the bedroom. The high of knowing my touch just sets you off to the low of aftercare ruminating on the immense amount of trust you've granted me. I'm naturally soft spoken and gentle but I have a large range of "personas" when it comes to kink. I lowkey enjoy degrading and humiliating my partners going far as rubbing wet panties on a partner's soaking clit and stuffing it in their mouth. I've also dabbled in being a bull for a couple where I sent insulting texts and photos. My toolkit is pretty much non-existant as I had to pack light on my moce across the ocean. I'm currently searching for a new set of quality impact implements. I did bring a leather flyswatter, a half finished flog I was fabricating, and my imagination!

I think knowing some of my vanilla interestsis important. First and foremost, I'm an avid traveler. Grew up in the US, studied in London, almost moved to Mexico, and am now residing in Spain. My most recent trips were crashing at my friend's apartment in Montreal during Jazz fest and a two week backpacking trip through London, Romania, and Berlin. I've had the opporrunity to see the Monarch Reserve in Michoacán and my next big bucket list thing is to climb Devil's Tower in Wyoming.My other highlights w a mission trip to Guatemala and a lengthy Southern trip to the Grand Canyon and back. I've grown my cookbook from all the places I've been so have an open mind as well as appetite and hope you do too. I' relearning how to cook, starting with Galician dishes.  

I like to to think I'm interesting but I'm fairly modest so I'd like to leave you to draw your own conclusions once you meet me. In fact, I often fill my time with figure drawing, fashion design, and poetry. There's just something erotic and intimate to me about sketching someone I've played with and as I improve I definitely wouldn't mind new subjects. Poetry has also been a huge inspiration for me which I'm also training myself to get back into. When I'm doing either I listen to my Spotify playlists as it's littered with jazz, indie, and early ska. Pre-pandemic I'd have band signatures added to a grey and white washout demim jacket by Timberlake's William Rast brand. Biggest Highlights including Franz Ferdinand, The Buzzcocks, and James Supercave!

  Basically pouring my kinky big "heart" into this I do have a few hard boundaries such as knifeplay, anything involving children, diapers, blood, and scat. I do consider myself quite well rounded and I'd gladly answer questions. I'm open and would enjoy sharing. I'd also love the opportunity to ruin your holes ;)

About my appearance:

• 5'9" (1.76m) raised amongst 6ft men
• Shaved head. I lost my bair in a traumatic lawn mower incident in 19'
• Beautiful, deep blue eyes
• Attractive, stern voice.
• Slim build, broad shoulders, 160lbs
• Clean and trim beard
• I'm DDF (5/28/23 bi-annual full checkup, Vaccinated & Boosted w/Pfizer)

What I look for:

• 20-34 is ideal.
• Active in both body and mind
• I workout regularly and look for the same.
• Preference for slim thick or petite
• Open to all colors.
• I really appreciate someone who likes lingerie.
• Sharing a bit about yourself is important.

Feel free to message me in chat if this vibes with you.

Best, with great affection,

John