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BEFORE READING: I only flared this as NSFW because sex is more or less of an expectation in a relationship, I'm not looking for hookups. We can discuss what we want further if you want after reading.
I haven't tried for romance for a little bit and don't want to turn to dating apps, I figure here wouldn't be a bad idea to look into. First, some info about me.
I'm a college student currently studying Computer Science and expecting to graduate next year. I have a somewhat open door for a job with a corporation right out of college too, which is worth mentioning if we hypothetically go long-term.
I go to the gym regularly, like 4 or 5 days a week; it's both a hobby and something I do for wellness. I also playing enjoy video games, listening to music from before my time, reading plain-text books or manga, cooking basic food for myself. Watching sports is something I enjoy, particularly Football, but if you put me in front of a TV with some sort of sport on I'll be able to get immersed easily.
I consider myself to be honest and faithful, I don't really have it in me to be rude or vindictive without reason. I think I'm above average in intelligence, but I also think I'm a brilliant dumbass sometimes. I'm not cocky about it, because I especially know I make mistakes. I'm admittedly shy and quiet when I don't know people, but once I begin talking to someone I'm an open book. I value privacy a lot, which is why I have very little social media presence (this account is literally a throwaway lol).
I'll get to the physical description of myself: I'm white, 6' even (what a suspiciously convenient height, I know), 210 lbs (again, working on that), have long and curly brown hair I usually keep tied back, and wear glasses for an astigmatism. I'm like a 6 in my eyes based on pure looks, but I've been told otherwise. No piercings or tattoos of any sort, and no weird diseases or conditions either. Because of how my body looks, I'm a little averted to sharing pics (outside of a certain thing) unless I'm reciprocating being sent pics. It's important to know what you're getting into, though, so it would be wrong to hide that from you. I also occasionally drink and smoke cigars, but it's not often enough to travel with me.
I suppose I don't really have a "type" because I don't see women as categories, I want more than just a pretty face, I need something to love aside from something with an expiration date. I have basic preferences but even if those are all met, the girl can still make me miserable.
As for preferences, here goes:
Age: 20 to mid-40s
Apperence: as long as you take care of yourself, I don't care too much
Body type: skinny to chubby, I'm not picky. Again, as long as you take care of yourself I'm game with whatever
Interests: should have some similar interests, but asking for someone totally in sync like that is unrealistic
Location: like an hour or two away at most, gas isn't cheap
Personality: I appreciate kindness and sincerity above all else, and if you're enjoyable to be around, even better
Recreational habits: No alcoholics, no chainsmokers, no stoners (especially stoners in denial), no hardcore drugs. Social drinking and tobacco smoking are acceptable, but anything other than that is mostly non-negotiable
Intentions: I'm thinking long-term here, I'm not trying to date around for fun or find easy sex, I want something real
Other than that, we can discuss further details privately. I hope to hear from some of you soon, if I've piqued your interest.
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