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Welllllllll fuck.
I've been dating for way too long- never really lived or been alone. I've had a 4 year, 4 year, then a 5 year relationship so im really not used to this shit. I know its important to learn how to live alone/not live my life for OTHER people but its a learning process right now. I highly suspect that im BPD as all of my relationships follow the same patterns and end up in inevitable abandonment. Im taking time this year/next year to stop dating and figure out who I want to be and how to be more independent.
All that said, its lonely af out here. Im really just looking for someone that I can talk to regularly, form a friendship and get advice from. I love helping others w their issues and offering advice, lending an ear, a metaphorical shoulder to cry on.
I would also really love to get a little flirty but hey I get it its not always in the cards.
Why am I even here?? Idfk
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