Hey, I'm hoping to find a Mistress/Domme with similar kinks to me. I'm particularly into watersports, verbal abuse, calorie control/limits, being kept naked, body writing, having to eat/drink unpleasant or bland things, eating from a dog bowl, spitting, forced intoxication, very rough deep throating of dildos/strap ons, puke, and other forms of humiliation. I'm also very into bondage, orgasm denial, and general rules, restrictions, and punishments.

One of the main things I'm looking for though is being put on a diet – calorie limits, intermittent fasting, maybe food budget limits, and possibly sometimes purging. I'm not fat – my BMI and weight are within healthy ranges for my height but higher than I'd like, and I'm slightly chubby.

I enjoy mild to moderate pain too, and that's something that I'm looking to explore more. I have a lot of BDSM toys as well.

Given all of the above the right Domme for me enjoys being cruel/mean a lot of the time, but ideally they'd also have a softer side.

But there are some quite popular things that I'm not into – I wouldn't say they're limits, but I wouldn't want them to be a major focus. One is crossdressing, another is CBT (I prefer pain to my ass, thighs etc). I'm also not a huge fan of ass play – though I'm more up for that than the other two.

I realise this post has been very focused on what I want not what I can offer so far, but I think it's important to address that, lest I waste everyone's time. I'm very eager to please though and open to many other things.

I'm 36, and I live in England, so I suppose ideally someone in a similar time zone would be preferable, but that's not required.

I've only ever really done casual play as a sub before but I'm looking for something more serious and long-term – more of a commitment, and perhaps some 24/7 rules and restrictions. But you might need to be a bit patient with me initially.

If you're interested feel free to start a chat – no need to reply to this post.