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For a while (seven years), I blamed the world a lot for ending up in relationships where my partner was abusive. Since a year back, I've realised that a piece of how it became like that is because of my own lack of self-worth. It is easy to brush off the good old saying "love yourself before you can love another", but it has some sense to it.
Now I'm at a point when I feel ready to start meeting someone again, but just having moved to a new town where I don't know anyone has made it feel a little bit slow in its start.
I want to meet someone who I can laugh with, go on adventures, cry, do stupid and weird shit, talk for hours or be silent together, have lots and lots of sex (intimacy is important for me), travel, be angry, do things together and by ourselves and just support each other in becoming the best version of ourselves (and not a caricature of how we want the other person to be).
I am a 35 year old man living in Sweden, currently doing my PhD studies and loving every second of it. Music is very close to my heart, but not nearly as much as my interest in people. My friends are scattered throughout the world, and I go visit them when I can. I usually have a pretty calm vibe, but I am more often than not jumping around doing stuff. I am a weirdo in many ways, but then again who isn't?
Looking to connect with a person and see where things end up. If we hit it off, great! If we don't, I've had the luxury of meeting an awesome person. Send me a message and tell me something about yourself that you are proud of, and something that you are passionate about in life.
Hug!
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