So I am tagging this as NSFW but not necessarily looking for just sex or what have you but want to keep that open. Also, apologies, I am not interested in anyone who is trans though I am so happy and support your drive to be what you feel you are! Don't let anyone stop you from being the best you that you can be :) I also am only looking for people roughly my age or younger. I am only interested in single people, I am not interested in anything poly... Anyway...

I am a rather lonely geek/nerd type seeking a partner. My PFP is me, though I have not shaved in a while so it's a bit scruffier now. I am an obese man but I am trying to diet better. Here is a more recent photo, no judgement if you stop here as physical attraction is important both ways and I don't want to lead anyone on! I will admit, I am a hypocrite as a fat guy who isn't all that great looking haha. I plan to re-shave my head again soon, I hate seeing my partially bald head and think it looks better shaved.

Anyway, I am also full time employed in most likely a long term/lifetime career path. I also have my own car but not my own place at this time and would rather not host if possible when we feel comfortable hanging out not in public.

I would like to find and meet a woman who is interested in nerdy stuff. Anime, Manga, Games, Cosplay, etc. Cosplay would be especially cool, I admire the craft and cons and such. I would really like to make a best friend, have not had one in a long time, and potentially be more. Someone I can have the most random and obscure conversations with and not feel judged. Someone who I can feel safe and protected with, which I know is a bit of a reverse of gender norms. I am very introverted and meek for the most part but open up quite a bit when I am comfortable with someone.

I enjoy drawing but I can rarely ever bring myself to do so, I don't think I am half bad for how little I do actually draw. I also enjoy writing when inspiration hits. I definitely like to be creative, truth is I would love to make my own game some day. The ideas are there but it's all about getting motivated haha.

I should also mention I have ADHD and Autism and not only actively go to therapy but I am also medicated for depression and my ADHD (we are still trying to find good meds for the ADHD).

Also I have no issue with women who do drugs (nothing hard), smoke, or drink though I personally do not do drugs, smoke, and rarely drink.

I suppose I should also touch on the NSFW stuff. I do have a pretty healthy libido so if we kick it off I would really, really, really love to find someone who is kinda as open as me. I like hentai and I think it would be cool to find a partner to read/watch that kinda stuff together (and laugh at how over the top the voice acting always is XD) and just in general talk about sex stuff like any other conversation when the time is right. Sex isn't all I care about but I certainly like physical intimacy as a way of showing love/being shown love. I am very low maintenance and gifts and stuff are probably the least important thing to me.

Sorry if this is a bit rambley, please feel free to ask me anything you like :)