I know this is a bit long, but what can I say--I'm a complex being (and also, I don't know how to shut up lol). Online dating has been really difficult and dating in person has been even worse--is it this rough for everybody? Jeez. So, I'm giving Reddit a go.

Anyway, I'm Winnie/Winter (you can call me either or)! I'm queer and nonbinary/genderqueer (they/she), AFAB if it matters. I'm really interested in meeting potential new partners! I'm currently in western-central PA, and I'm planning on moving to Columbus, OH before the end of the year--but I'm also totally fine with long-distance. Preferably a similar-ish timezone, but that's not a deal-breaker. Please be in the 23-40 age range (I'm firm on no one under 23, but a bit above 40 is fine if we click!)

I'm polyamorous--I live with my queerplatonic partner (I'm disabled and they help support me), but I date solo. I'm also primarily queer4queer in my dating life, which means I typically only date other people who identity as queer in some way. Beyond that, I really don't care too much about what you look like or your gender/sexuality or etc. If we vibe, we vibe. I'm a strong leftist and I'm agnostic with religious trauma, so I am 100% not interested in talking to conservatives or Christians at this time.

I'm disabled/chronically ill and neurodivergent. I often use a mobility aid to get around. I'm plus-sized and trying to be unapologetic about it. I change my hair color every other month. (Very willing to exchange selfies/other socials/etc once we start talking!)

I sing, I write occasionally, do some art, and take care of a lot of pets (4 dogs and 7 cats!) I'm in fandoms like Marvel, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Supernatural, etc. I love musical theater and absolutely everything horror-related. Fall Out Boy has been my biggest special interest for almost 20 years.

Some brief physical intimacy stuff: I'm submissive, and have been interested in meeting someone dominant. Pretty kinky in theory, still a bit kink-inexperienced in practice. So sex/kink is something that could certainly be on the table, but I do need to have a real connection with someone outside of sex, so I don't do hook-ups. I'm definitely willing to openly discuss sex and kink early on! We just have to get to a point where I trust you before I can actually have sex lol

I do have a lot of trauma from multiple abusive relationships in my past, and I've spent a lot of time on my own (and in therapy) working through that. My queerplatonic partner is lovely and I get a lot of great things from our relationship, but I miss also having partners that I have romantic and physical intimacy with, and I'm in a place where I'm ready to explore that again.

If you made it through this whole post and you feel like we could hit it off, message me a random cool fact you know!