I’ve met nicer people through Reddit than anywhere else, so I thought this was worth a go.

I enjoy my life but it pains me having nobody special to share it with. I’ve been alone for too long and travelled to too many places by myself. I still believe that could change.

Here’s a bit about me... I have a pretty serious job, lots of interests and plenty of wonderful friends. I’m equally at home at a racing track (watching, not driving!) or an opera house. I’m a very creative person and my creativity spills out in lots of different ways. I’ve always read compulsively, whether online or in the form of books. I generally prefer real life to virtual. I’m very sensual and adore good food and wine. My friends say that I’m warm, kind and a lot of fun to be around. I’m also in pretty good shape - slim with long blonde hair - and have only been called unattractive on a couple of occasions…

I’m looking for everything: a true partnership and hopefully eventually a family, once we’ve really got to know each other. I want to find someone empathetic, interesting and kind. I wish looks didn’t matter but they do. It’s important that I find my partner physically attractive and vice versa. It would be ideal if you were in the UK and aged roughly 25-40, but those aren’t necessarily hard limits. Once we’ve been talking for a bit, I’ll expect you to verify your identity and I’ll happily do the same.

To balance things out, here are some potential dealbreakers: - I’m a free spirited libertarian with views that some people don’t like (though I respect all opinions). Please note that messaging me just to ask what these views are is NOT a polite first message 🙃 - I have a lot of stuff - though I’m not a hoarder - and can be a bit messy. - I can be a little bit of a princess and don’t think I’d enjoy wild camping, for example. I did stay in hostels a few times as a student but wouldn’t do so now.

Please drop me a message if you’re interested in chatting. Low-effort and repeated messages will be ignored. Thanks and good luck 😊