If you message me, please tell me about yourself and include a/some photo(s) of yourself right away. Putting it in the very first sentence hoping people will actually read it? 😅.

Not your typical redditor I guess as I don’t consider myself to be a ‘nerdy gamer’ or watch anime 😅. I’ve posted on here a few times before about being in a new city and a bad breakup and needing a distraction. I’ve connected with some interesting people and even though I’m not in touch with most of them anymore, I did learn a lot about men and myself from those interactions. So, I’m here to try again but this time I’m looking for a meaningful connection that’ll last, hopefully.

Interested in talking to Americans/Canadians (around NYC/Toronto would probably make the most sense, I can explain why if we hit it off, but I guess anywhere on the east coast of the US is fine). It’s an accent thing, (the standard accents, what you hear on tv I guess), I’m into all races/ethnicities. I’ve spent quite a bit of time in NY/NJ and I’ll be moving to North America for work within the next year as well, if everything goes according to plan (won’t be giving up my Danish citizenship and could go back anytime. I love Denmark. A lot of people ask about this so thought I’d explain).

I’m a happy and positive person in general (with a bit of sass/sarcasm once you get to know me, but it’s all in good fun and I can definitely take it as well). I do get mad/annoyed/sad at times but it usually doesn’t last long. Honestly though, I hope you do too, cause it’s human. The important thing is to be able to talk about it. If you’re not a good communicator and if you can’t handle emotions, let’s not communicate at all.

I’m into socializing with my friends (it doesn’t matter what we do really, I’ll have fun as long as the company is good), going to the gym/being active, cooking, watching tv, occasionally gaming on my PS and a bunch of other stuff.

I’m educated and have a successful career, but I definitely enjoy my free time and I’d probably vibe with people that are similar. I’m super independent - right until I see spider or need to open jars :p. Not religious and not into drugs of any kind.

If you wanna know more, and if you’re a decent human being, I guess I’ll catch you in my DMs/chat and feel free to ask!

If you do contact me, please include a photo of yourself and tell me a bit about yourself. I did the same, right? If you don’t, I won’t be responding.

Alright, so here’s proof that I am me: https://ibb.co/m03P4kn

And here’s another photo of me: https://ibb.co/hMQDLXx

And here’s another one: https://ibb.co/0GyV3qr

It may not seem like it, but I smile a lot and it’s super easy to make me laugh, I promise!

Born and raised in Denmark, but ethnically I’m… a secret for now ;). My skin color ranges between olive - tan/brown. I’m 5’3 but into taller guys (6’0-6’2).

Like I said, into all races/ethnicities but I do have a preference to at least a bit of melanin. Prefer men around my age (maybe 31-35?). Not into younger/older men, married/engaged/cheating men, polyamorous people… yeah I could keep adding to the list but I hope you get the idea. Oh, and no drugs.