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Hi,
I'm looking for a man aged 25-35 to chat with about life and experience emotional warmth from. I'd like someone with an education and a stable job/career ambitious. This preference is related to trauma issues - I've experienced physical, verbal, and emotional abuse from a father that could never hold a job, so now a career-motivated, intelligent man = a safe man for me.
I don't want to waste anyone's time, so I'll be brutually honest about myself. I'm on the border of overweight/obese and not uncoventionally attractive. I'm neurodivergent (complex ptsd, depression). I've never experienced any romantic or sexual experiences except being sexually harrassed by my older brother.
Despite all this, I love the idea of romance and being to experience emotional warmth, genuine interest, respect, and investment from someone. To clarify, I'm not looking for anything sexual or crude. I guess I'm looking to simulate the experience of having a gentle, affectionate, caring boyfriend.
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