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34 [F4M] SE Michigan Why do I keep doing this?
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violetspecs99 is a female age 34 looking for a male in Michigan
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Oh, yeah, that’s right, I don’t want to be alone.

It’s been almost 6 months since I posted on here. I can’t recall if anything really turned up. Some Reddit encounters only last a few days until the excitement of meeting someone new wears off. I’ve been doing the dating app thing for a long time now and that’s probably created just as many positive results as posting here, so what the heck.

I’m 34, divorced (no kids, but still would like them), and 5 gorgeous pets (2 dogs and 3 cats). I’m unapologetically sarcastic. Too nerdy for the cool kids and too cool for the nerds. Like always, still trying to see where I fit.

I studied film and television in undergrad and that’s probably how I spend most of my free time, consuming those things. I’d say I’m a nerd about them, but then I run into the one person whose favorite movies and shows are ones I haven’t seen.

I do spend a lot of time hanging out at home, occupational hazard of being introverted and only having a couple friends. I do like going out to restaurants, camping (not hardcore camping; I do require electricity and running water), seeing movies, taking day trips/road trips. I also love standup comedy. I thought about maybe throwing my hat into the ring, but then I just didn’t.

I do want to point out I guess that I mostly believe in science (let me do my witchy/pagan things and pretend like it means something, ok) and I support social rights and justice. So, pretty left-leaning.

And if it matters, I’m a shorter, curvy BBW. I am into chubbier guys, but that partially might be because I assume those are the only ones into me. Despite being larger, and not working out, I am trying to be more active as my body is starting to feel much older than it is, and I try to eat a balanced diet despite loving pizza and ice cream too much. I would hope for someone kinda similar in that regard—I don’t do while with either drastic sides of the spectrum of being obsessed with diet and fitness or completely not caring at all. I also recently discovered I really dig beards and tattoos. But if you don’t have either, that is totally fine. Mental and emotional connection is also just as important. I also prefer someone who is close in her to myself, within 5 years.

I don’t feel like this post looks cohesive, but if anything piqued your interest, please feel free to reach out!

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