Hi. I'll try to make this post as clear as possible.

I'm a 25 year old girl looking for someone older (early 30s at most). Someone to talk with on the day to day. I enjoy consistent communication, you need to value this as well. I'm not interested in playing with anyone's emotions (unless that's your kink?). I will not abandon anyone I've been having a serious conversation with. I will always first try to communicate, please be of the same mindset.

I enjoy finding connections online. Which I once actually hated . It seemed like it wasn't "genuine", as if meeting someone in person guarantees anything haha. I like the anonymity that comes with being on this side of the internet. Not because I have anything to hide, but because it seems people are more open to being who they are with strangers.

I don't want to stay strangers. I would like to create an emotional connection first. I want to actually care about you first. I want to know about who you are. Who you want to be. Who you already are. Anything. I don't want any shame to exist within our connection. Want to share in a way you never thought you could? Great!

I love the feeling of being really close with a partner. I want to know I can reach out to you at any time and it not seem to be a bother. I like aspects of what others would see as codependency or lovebombing but I want it to be real feelings. Not a game. I also want us to have our own lives independently. I want to center my partner and vice versa, but I don't want that to be the only thing going on in our lives.

I want priority. I want to also give you priority. I want us to be capable of being really appropriate and also really inappropriate with one another when the time feels right. I am in no rush. I want everything to feel natural, I want it to actually be natural. So please don't force anything but also don't restrict yourself. Let's be respectful of one another.

What I'm looking for is someone patient. Someone who is emotionally intelligent and is able to talk in a detailed way. I don't want to guess what you're thinking/feeling/doing. Tell me. Over explain, I do not care. I would prefer that. I get along best with someone who is gentle but is also capable of existing on the "rougher* side. While I want someone kind, I don't want someone who can only be kind. I'm okay with heated discussions. I feel it allows me to know the person more if they don't hold back their thoughts. I also don't want anyone rigid. I don't want to be forced to see the world as you do, and if that is important to you then we won't be a match. I want to talk about anything and everything with judgement. As long as we click things will be fine.

Physically I don't particularly care what features you have. I do find myself typically attracted to slim/lean men, and for whatever unusual reason I also appreciate a guy with glasses. Odd, I know. As long as everything else in my post connected with you, there's nothing else I require in terms of looks. I don't think your ethnic background matters, and neither should mine. I'm not into people who have hard-defined lines of what they can be attracted to, even if it encapsulates what I look like. I also am not interested in sharing pics early on.

What I would appreciate is hearing your voice. If we can have a voice call tonight (discord) that would be great. Hearing your voice before a call would be a bonus. I don't care for a "deep" voice like I know a lot of people seem to. I just know the type of voice I like when I hear it.

Thanks for your time!