Hey! My name is Becca, and I'm a strong, ambitious, independent African-American woman living in the beautiful state of Minnesota (I’m 5’3”, in case you’re wondering). I'm passionate about equality, social justice, and disability rights, and am an ally of the LGBTQIA community. I believe we all have a role to play in making this world a better and more just place, and I am looking for someone who shares that belief.

I am a deeply family-oriented person. I come from a big family and I’d love to have future mini-mes running around! I value honesty, consistency, loyalty, and a good sense of humor in all my relationships. Communication is critical to me, and I prioritize it over everything else - it's the key to a successful partnership, in my opinion. My love languages are touch, spending quality time together, and words of affirmation, and I never compromise on those things.

I don't smoke/vape, drink, or use drugs, but I am 420-friendly (no, I don’t smoke), so you can indulge if that's your thing. I respect people's choices to do what they like, as long as it doesn't harm anyone else. I'm currently learning Hawaiian, Samoan, Tongan, and Māori, and I'm excited to be on this language-learning journey.

I’m an extreme sports fan and passionate about many forms of martial arts - especially taekwondo. I've earned a 2nd-degree black belt and I’m looking to add Brazillian Jiu-Jitsu to my growing list of martial arts. I also have a deep interest in boxing and MMA, as well as being an avid rugby, football, basketball, and baseball fan. My favorite rugby team is the New Zealand All Blacks. And when I'm not cheering on my favorite teams or athletes, I'm diving headfirst into my favorite fantasy and sci-fi worlds. I'm a huge anime and Marvel fan, and I'll always have a place in my heart for ATLA, Naruto, and Star Wars. But I'm not a nerd who spends all day on the couch: I love pushing myself to new levels and living life to the fullest.

I'm currently learning Hawaiian, Samoan, Tongan, and Māori. I'm so excited to be on this language-learning journey! I’d love for you to join me! When I'm not studying, you can catch me watching some anime, binging Black Ink Crew, or listening to music. Lindsey Stirling, Sabaton, Nirvana, Shepard’s Reign, Alien Weaponry, The Hu, Beartooth, Deftones, Juice Wrld, Complete, The 046, Pentatonix, Lisi, and ONEFOUR are just a few of my favorite artists.

What am I looking for in my future husband? Someone between the ages of 26-34, preferably in Minnesota, the United States, Australia, New Zealand, or the United Kingdom. A man who is respectful, compassionate, occasionally romantic, honest, trustworthy, and in it for the long haul. I've had my fair share of shitty relationships, and I'm ready to find someone who will be with me through thick and thin. As long as we're both honest and committed to each other, then you can count on me to give it my all.

Lastly, I just want to say that I take dating seriously, and I'm not interested in hookups or games. But if you're ready for a meaningful, long-term relationship with an incredibly flawed, like-minded person, then let's get to know each other. If you’ve read this far, then you might just be the one. Send me a message with the following quote: “When we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change.” Name the person who said it, the show it's from, and bonus points if you know it without having to look it up.

Can't wait to hear from you! ❤️