I love the dichotomy of strong and weak, dominating and submissive. Good and bad. All within agreed upon limits, of course. I think my favourite is a domineering man. The type who is typically very direct, which makes it so much more exciting when he is gentle.

I'd like someone to lay a nice foundation with before we start speaking more intensely. I'd still like someone who is actually respectful. When it's just the two of us, I'd like you to lose that composure, though. I want a man who can be a little harsh at times, and wants a girl who desires a little roughness. A man who would want to take advantage of their girl because she wants that too . The type of guy who would be good at hiding how much of a toxic relationship we willingly play into. That's what I need more than anything. Someone I can let all my walls down with. Someone who will yell if they're angry. Someone who wants to face the emotions that we often think we have to hide from our romantic partners, and from everyone else. I think that's one way you know you are actually close with someone, by being completely transparent. When you show the sides that would often be demonized by society at large, for good reason. But I want that. I still want the typical type who treats me like a delicate little flower, I just also want someone who is a little fucked up so I don't have to be insecure about who I am. I want someone who shows me all of them so I feel close to them. And I want someone who wants that too. Who wants a girl that probably talks back more than she should, or says things that aren't always nice. A girl who may be a bit too sarcastic and jokes around a bit too much. I want to push back. And I want someone who wants that too.

I'd love to just chat about why this sort of dynamic is intriguing to us. I am inexperienced when it comes to having this play out in the real world, so you've been warned. Please read my post history so you can get a little glimpse of who I am before messaging me. I'll try not to discriminate too much, but I'd prefer someone older, and unattached to anyone.