To describe me as unconventional is an understatement. I tend to lose interest in things quickly, which is probably why sex work is the only form of employment I’ve been able to maintain consistently in my adult life. I have a lot of positive attributes, but reliability, stability and responsibility aren’t on the list.

Being horny as fuck is probably the most consistent thing about me. I’m guided by my pussy and she gets me into some very fun and interesting situations.

I’m in my 30s, have lived in many places but settling down in SoCal for the foreseeable future. No kids, no pets (I can’t even keep a potted cactus alive, no thanks).

All of this weirdness doesn’t come out of thin air. I’ve had quite an unconventional life.

I grew up as a preacher’s daughter in the deep south in a Warren Jeffs-esque fundamentalist Christian cult. I was isolated from society and “homeschooled” to shield me from “worldly influences.” It was believed that girls didn’t need more than a 7th grade education since their highest calling was to be God’s vessels to bring forth more children into the world. My early exposure to anything outside of the fundamentalist dogma was limited. I was banned from consuming any media that wasn’t explicitly Christian.

I memorized the Bible, thrived on a steady diet of fire and brimstone teachings, and pledged to remain a chaste virgin until marriage. Yeah, that type of hot mess.

Reading saved me. I secretly read all kinds of books and learned there was a whole world out there that I was being kept away from and I wanted to experience it. My frustration with being trapped in such a restricted existence became stronger than my fear of the unknown. I escaped in my early 20s and never looked back. I crashed and burned in my first year and landed in some serious therapy. With professional help, I started making the necessary but extremely difficult transition into mainstream society.

By that process I was able to fully realize I was… free. Broke, terrified and deeply traumatized, but finally free. Free to do what I want, be who I want, make all mistakes I wanted to (and boy did I make them).

I learned that all of that purity shit I was raised on was just that… shit. Sex is beautiful and my pussy and her desires are sacred. Which was a very fortunate realization because I was, and always have been, very horny.

Trying to compensate for my extreme educational neglect, untangling my trauma, and doing it all with very underdeveloped social skills and no support system while just trying to survive on a minimum wage income was not easy.

Sex work saved me from that. I took to it like a duck to water as they say. I didn’t just do okay at it, I thrived. I Thanks to my perpetually high sex drive and endless sexual curiosity, I now have a pretty decent life.

Looking at me, I appear to be a very well put together person. And I am for the most part. I’m socially adept and gregarious. I’m well-liked and make friends easily. Most people are shocked to find out that I literally crawled out of the bowels of hell to get to where I am. Oh, and I’m in college, finally ☺️

I’m at peace with the fact that it isn’t easy for me to form deep connections. I need to be able to be authentic and transparent about who I am. Despite that, I’m still pretty cautious about how much I open up to strangers. I need someone who understands my past and won’t judge me for the choices I’ve made, because I sure as hell don’t regret them.

My past has made me into the person I am. I like how open minded and out of the box I am. It’s really hard to label or categorize me and I love that about myself.

My type is typically around my age and older, my height and taller, and fit/athletic, full head of hair, nice smile and eyes, clean cut, well dressed, cultured and professional. But superficial things aren’t set in stone.

The only must is that you must enjoy sex. If you have sexual hangups, a low libido or a 24 hour refractory period you’re not for me. I want someone whose idea of a good time is spending a weekend in bed with me trying to set a new record for how many simultaneous orgasms we can have. Someone who is adventurous, likes to travel and try new things but at the same time is okay with doing absolutely nothing sometimes.

I’m a homebody and introvert at the core. I often need days of downtime where I just stay indoors and zone out, especially after a big event or a lot of activity. I’m a highly sensitive person and need my environment to be just so - everything needs to be calibrated to not be overstimulating. I like being surrounded by soft textures, soothing sights and not too much noise - unless it’s brown noise.

I employ a team of handlers to assist me in all matters of life. People like me need a lot of support to thrive.

I enjoy cooking and baking, but I like dining out too. I like going to upscale bars and lounges (especially ones with a nice roof deck) as long as they aren’t too loud. I’m not a big drinker, maybe a nice glass of wine or two, or a margarita if I’m in the mood.

I listen to all kinds of music. Having my music consumption restricted for the first part of my life meant I was like a kid in a candy store when I was first able to listen to whatever I wanted. I make amazing playlists. You’ll find me listening to everything from Blondie to the Doobie Bros, Hall & Oates, The Eagles, America, Ludacris, Zhu, Bruno Mars, CAKE, Soft Cell, Lane 8, Queen, J Cole, and yea Ariana Grande is a guilty pleasure.

I love to travel. I’ve traveled pretty extensively in Europe. I don’t like to rough it or backpack/do the hostel thing, I always spring for the luxurious experience. I like cities with a lot of history, I enjoy museums and tours. Tropical vacations are my favorite, I don’t like the snow and cold weather. I like to explore cities off the beaten path. I like to pretend to be a local and do everyday stuff like visit the grocery store and other everyday things that most tourists would never do. I’m a nudist and like to visit all the clothing optional places.

I don’t really camp so much anymore, but if I do it’s always glamping. I’m not big into skiing or hiking but I might be able to be convinced. Not huge into movies or TV but I’ll watch something if it’s on and like a good weekend binge too.

I’m an avid reader. Right now I’m really into biographies and other nonfiction. Personal development is a favorite genre of mine, I also like true crime. I follow the news in small doses, and I like a good podcast.

I don’t smoke (weed or cigarettes), but I’m not opposed to occasional use of edibles or entheogens. I also like a good roll every once in a while.

I exercise regularly and I’m in great shape - I can’t function without a well-balanced diet and exercise routine. The side effect though is that my body is looking pretty damn good.

I’m 5’11, 135ish, light eyes, long hair, big boobs.

And I’m black.

Yeah, I’m sure you were imagining some white Duggar-ish sisterwives looking chick, but black people get caught up in religious cults too.