About Me

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Hello! I'm interested in meeting someone cool to hopefully develop a solid connection and relationship. I tend to be smiley and light hearted and love randomness but I know when to take things seriously too. I feel like I'm pretty decent at handling business and I'm overall happy alone but I feel like things would be more fun with a kick ass partner. In regards to D/s, I would describe my style as a mix of a gentle Dom but with the enjoyment of my special someone's deep submission. I'm very fulfilled with leading and I like the responsibility of making my partner feel well used but also incredibly smiley. You feeling comfortable and secure and safe and trusting so you feel subspace is always my greatest accomplishment.

• Age and Location: I'm 31 and live in Louisville, KY. I have my own home here, but I am not locked in. As a long-term goal, I'm open to relocating or you relocating to me.
• Interests, hobbies, and passions: I'm pretty into DIY and home improvement whether interior or exterior. I get excited about power tools, hand tools, different technology whether high tech or low tech. I love crafting things with my own hands and seeing a project come together. I'm also into computer tech or smart home things or like home cinema or audio systems. Gardening is something I'm also getting into. Any tips please? I definitely do not have a green thumb. Some grass I've planted has not done too well hahaha.
• Current work, education, and projects: Remodelling my bathroom and also redesigning my living room. I really want some nice built in bookshelves -- in the living room, not the bathroom, though maybe the latter would be suitable too lol. Also, I love always learning something new. Recently I've been splitting my attention between technology in different TVs as well as garden hose connections and sprinklers etc.
• Height, weight, body type: 5'8" 250lbs, broad chested and muscularly but I cannot deny I have some chubbiness too lol. I am finding more and more small ways to remind myself to eat less and overall healthier since, when people ask me if I exercise, I'm tired of thinking to myself no I just am naturally physical looking but I eat too many nachos in reality lol and that adds to the bulk.

My Ideal Partner

I really look for a partner in general who also enjoys being humorous and fun. I looooooove back and forth teasing whether verbally or physically. I also really appreciate someone who is affectionate and smart and sweet. I'm pretty random and take things as they come, but, also, I feel like I thrive with structure in a relationship. I want someone who genuinely enjoys pleasing and well receives sometimes detailed directions or guidance of what, when, how, or where. I really like communication, so I want to give you the relief of only having to focus on listening and pleasing but also receiving lots of care and praise. Oh ya, I am also open to any gender, though, I'm not really into cis guys. Also, I am comfortable with either a monogamous relationship or if my partner is poly.

• Age and Location I'm really not selective actually. I'm open to all ages. What's important to me is good chemistry. I'd prefer someone close since that obviously would be convenient, but also, flights even across the country aren't too terribly expensive if planned ahead. Maybe we can go dutch on the cost?
• Height, weight, body type: Again what is important to me is personality and shared interests, but also I do appreciate if someone takes care of their presentation regardless of their weight.
• Personality traits: I am a fan of quirky people! Bubbly and positive and fun. If you talk a lot or even nonstop lol that is fine by me. On the flip side, if you are more dark and quiet, I am very happy to be the talkative one lol, but I am also comfortable enjoying each other's company even during moments of silence too. As for D/s, regardless of your experience level, I need someone who will try their best to be creative in pleasing. I really love leading and caring and supporting and giving my all, but I also want to feel cared for and thrilled too. It is important to me that someone openly expresses and communicates their desires and needs and feelings so I can reward and praise and improve quality of their life as my submissive but also seeks to surprise me with little things such as warming a towel for me after a relaxing shower.
• Physical traits: I don't really have any specifics here. Like, I can be attracted to anyone just depending. I don't really have a preference for large or small breasts or ass etc lol. I am the type that will happily explore and appreciate all of you.

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