I'm at an emotionally difficult time in my life, wanting a new relationship to help me feel better, but not in the best place to be available depending on what's going on. Either understand, or don't respond.

Hi! I'm Emily. I work as a software engineer and I like creating art in my free time. A fun fact about me is that I don't like to follow recipes when I cook because I find them complicated and to take too much time.

I'm looking for that person that I'll feel a connection with.

Requirements: Being obedient is nice, but you also need to be interesting and have your own personality. I've received too many messages from people who can't describe themselves as anything other than 'obedient'.

Looking for not an exclusive relationship, at least to start.

Some expectations (PLEASE READ)

1. No sexual expectations

I'm not asexual, but too many submissives seem mainly interested in the sexual aspect. That's not for me. I'm mainly interested in the psychological aspect. So let's start right off the bat by saying that there will be no expectation that anything sexual will happen ever. You will not burden me with fulfilling your sexual desires.

1. Being an obedient good boy

Obedience is important to me in a sub. I like a sub who is obedient, gracefully and voluntarily. One who takes joy in obeying and pleasing their Mistress. You have a safeword and I will respect it. Also, I expect you not to obey if you feel that what I ask is harmful to your well-being. Your well-being takes precedence and it is not my intention to harm your well-being.

Also, I have other subs and I don't intend to leave them even if this works out with you.

SFW

• Age: 27. Open to any age.
• Appearance: Asian, slightly on the tall side, pretty thin.
• Location: Mainly looking for online. I live in Maryland.
• Pictures: I will not share pictures.
• Looking For: Looking for casual and multiple partners, at least to start.
• Traits I'm Looking For: Ideally, I'm looking for a sensitive person, an obedient sub, ideally someone intelligent and witty, someone who can see the positives in anything. Someone who is confident but truly knows how to be vulnerable. I want a sub who will make me smile when life gets stressful.
• Dealbreakers/Requirements: Generally be a good person who has kind intentions towards everyone.
• About Me: I like to write. I also compose piano music. I'm INTP in MBTI. I'm a social, socially awkward person.

NSFW Section:

• Experience: I have had one mostly online BDSM-themed relationship.
• Kinks: Obedience, praise kink, good boys, collar, slavery, worship, pain, CNC
• Limits: Bathroom stuff, gore
• Not looking for: JOI, tasks. People who are like 'golden retrievers'; nothing against golden retrievers, but people who describe themselves like that never seem to be what I'm looking for.