You may or may not be wondering, "what the hell is a pathologist?" A pathologist is a diagnostic physician, like a radiologist, but instead of using x-rays, we use a microscope and laboratory tests to provide diagnoses and predict which treatments would benefit a patient.

Now that this technicality is out of the way, what can I offer beyond my credentials? A romantic's attention to detail; meaning I will celebrate your birthdays, anniversaries, and other significant occasions, like Valentine's Day, with outings, memorable gifts, and flowers, especially roses and tulips. I know "touch" is not everyone’s lOvE laNguAgE, but I am a hugger (think big teddy bear), cuddler, and masseuse. For fun, we'll go on drives, hikes, dinner, bowling, the mall for mani-/pedicures or shopping, traveling, hanging out with family/friends, and dancing (i.e., salsa, merengue, bachata, cha-cha-cha, etc). Of note, they say good judgement is based on bad experience and Lord knows I have tons of bad experience. Thus, I emotionally polished and will give you little drama, albeit I do get hangry sometimes. I know how to cook, clean, upkeep a home, including handyman work and gardening, and work cars, so I can be a handy manly man for you. Lastly, I am financially independent, accomplished, and self-assured, so I will not be hitching my wagons to your carriage.

What am I looking for? Plainly stated, I am looking for a meaningful connection. I tend to fall for nerdy, sweet sapiophiliac types that take care of themselves. As Latino, I am affectionate, and a complementary, open-minded character, regardless of your ethnic/racial background, would be great. You should look forward to spending plenty of nurturing time together, doing whatever. It would be great if you are in healthcare, as I feel talking shop may help break the ice, but this is by no means a prerequisite. I recognize that Reddit predisposes to long distance relationships, but I honestly it may be best if you are within driving distance or we can fly regularly. Also, knowing there are more young ladies out there, I have read the literature on age-gap relationships and in my estimation, the jury is still out. Nevertheless, a big age difference may pose challenges down the road, so hedge your bets accordingly.

Important details of my life you should probably know include that I am divorced, have a young daughter with limited physical custody, and carry a dad bod that I try to stave off with exercise.

Drop me a line and tell me what you are all about. Look forward to chatting and getting to know each other.