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Hey.
There's snow on the ground, and I'm looking for some coziness. Not just for a day or a season...some long-term coziness and warmth.
I'm at the point in my life where I'm looking for my person to raise a family with. I want to put blue and pink plastic in the back of our car, okay? (That's a Life reference, btw.)
I know that I'm a catch and I have a lot going for me. I am supportive and kind and I would *love* to be a stay-at-home mom, though I'm also not opposed to having a job, either.
When I was graduating college, a professor asked me where I saw myself in 10 years. I said without hesitation: "Married with kids." He made the comment that usually students respond with something about grad school or their career. More than academics or a career, I want kids. It's a desire that exists deep within me.
And, here I am, with my ten year college reunion around the corner—which I probably won't go to, but it is a significant marker of time—and I'm ready to make my biggest dream a reality.
What I'm Looking For
I'm looking for a relationship with mutual adoration and support. We build each other up, and we're a badass team. I want to make you coffee in the morning and dinner at night (well, I think it would be fun to cook together sometimes, too.)
And, of course, regular sex is important for any long-term relationship. Admittedly, I am fairly inexperienced, so if you have a patient, understanding energy, that's .
I want to fiercely understand and see you, just as you fiercely see and understand me. Vulnerability is always a strength, not a weakness.
Let's Do This
As a first date idea, I've been really into the idea of going to a board game cafe. Like we could play Scrabble or Bananagrams or maybe you could teach me a new game? And BTW, I do really like audiochatting before a date to gauge initial compatibility, so let me know if you'd be up for that!
If you don't live in Chicago and you think we'd be pretty great together, please reach out! I'm not opposed to distance, though I would want to close it in short order.
p.s. I like yoga and goofiness and long walks and pizza. And, hopefully you?
p.p.s. I have long, thick hair and I wear some pretty great glasses :)
p.p.p.s. Please send me a message, not a chat.
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