Fit male, 29, 5’10, long black hair, tattoos and well trimmed beard, experienced in CNC play. Looking to find the right partner for a more intense realism based scene. Preferably looking for my ongoing partner, I have many wats we can incorporate why you would continue coming back that work well into any scene, from blackmail to curiosity there are a number of ways to make it work in an exciting way.I historically write lengthy posts with scenes in detail that people read, chat about because they love the fantasy but are never serious about actually following through on the pay (I get it, its an intense kink, but let's not waste each others time).To weed out the many questions that I tend to get and hopefully save you and I some time. Answers can be found below followed by a brief description of what can be expected from our scene. Check out my other postings if and decide if the particular kinks and scenes i lean towards match with what you are looking for.

I historically write lengthy posts with scenes in detail that people read, chat about because they love the fantasy but are never serious about actually following through on the pay (I get it, its an intense kink, but let's not waste each others time).

To weed out the many questions that I tend to get and hopefully save you and I some time. Answers can be found below followed by a brief description of what can be expected from our scene. Check out my other postings if and decide if the particular kinks and scenes i lean towards match with what you are looking for.

1) If you are not experienced in CNC, that is fine. However I will not just come find you. I will need to speak to you first and ensure that you're not baiting someone else and that the consent part of con non con is valid. 2) First scene will be discussed and created beforehand for you to read over so you are aware of exactly what is happening and what you are getting into. 3) I will need you to provide your hard limits ahead of time, if you do not know what they are, take some time to think about them. If you are looking to push your personal boundaries that's fine, but you need to confirm what those boundaries are and we will set a plan in place to properly push through them. 4) Safe words are obviously a must. Grips or noise makers will be used in the event that the scene includes a gag that prohibits you from speaking. 5) Prefer that you have a POC. Can easily work in a check in during a scene. 6) My last partner and I had an ongoing thing for 4 years, she moved looking for someone, preferably ongoing to fill her place. 7) Yes your discretion is assured - No i do not take pictures or video. If you want to, that's fine, however it will be recorded on your own device, never mine. I do not need nor want a copy of it, I would rather live it with you. 8) I host in private home, if needed I am able to come pick you up (within reason of course), if you prefer to drive yourself that's never an issue 9) Aftercare is a must, take the time to think about the aftercare you need if you are looking to try this for the first time. Ask all the questions, do all the research, but if your answer is “I don’t think i need it” we can save a lot of time and move on before you respond. 10) NO I am not interested in men. No offence, it is just not what I am looking for and I don't have any sexual attraction to men.

If the above answered most of your questions already, great. If not, feel free to message and ask more, however if you plan to message because you want to roleplay doing this and are not local or at least within an hour of me, or actually interested in IRL, let’s not waste each other's time.

The scene I have in mind will include a proper grab and go, heavy restraint play, humiliation, degradation and rough play. You will need to ensure that you have clothing you do not care about and an extra set you can bring for the end of the scene. I will scout the locations ahead of time if you are outside of my area (If you are in my area, once we set a date and time, I will provide you a location as within my area I have previously used, safe spots for a realistic grab). The scene itself will include your reason for being in that location and we will agree on what you will be wearing ahead of time. You will be grabbed, we will discuss how that happens, if there is a struggle etc.. and I will restrain you, and throw you in the back of my vehicle to transport you back to my home. Depending on the distance, there will be stops along the way. To stress again, there is heavy humiliation and degradation involved in this scene. We will play out the remainder of the scene and I will bring you back to the location where you were originally grabbed.

If you are interested and within an hour of the Peterborough / Kawartha lakes area. Your first message should include “Questions Answered” followed by the city you live in, so I know you actually read, understood and are looking for IRL CNC play. At that point I will send the full scene so we can discuss and set a date / time. Hopefully this time around I will find someone serious.