Looking For:

What's in the title of course. But basically these sort of things;

• Connection - Intellectual, physical, emotional.
• Availability - I have a crazy schedule, but I fit people in. Mid weeks are good, weekends are rare.
• Motivation - Not just talk or online flirtation. Lets do a date. Lets spend some time together. Let's actually give this a chance to go somewhere.
• Communicative - Conversation is essential for me. While together and while apart. No need to be clinger status, but some back and forth over time is good. (I'm talking about text, messaging (using whatever medium), and maybe even email. Sorry, but I don't talk on the phone unless it's an emergency or time sensitive.)

From what I can tell, most of these posts are very sexually driven. Which is fine for that stuff. But that's not what I'm looking for. I'm into people and connections. I want to know what makes you, you. And of course, vice versa. Non-monogamy isn't an excuse to just fulfill a fantasy for me. It's an opportunity to experience many different types of humans and learn and grow from what we can add to each other's life.

A few basics about me:

• Travel for work.
• Cuddle junkie.
• From, and love, the Pacific Northwest.
• Total nerd. (Sci-fi and fantasy are my favs)
• Foodie.
• Conversationalist.
• INTJ (Architect personality).
• Dark sense of humor, with some sarcasm, and flippant comments.
• A bit of a relationship anarchist.
• Gender/Sex/Body Positive.

I know at this point you've probably noticed I haven't put any of the superficial qualities that most people focus on. They aren't a huge deal to me and much of that is just down to whether or not you find the person attractive or not. I'm pretty open in that department and I take it individual by individual. Not broad, sweeping, generalizations to rule out whole groups of people.

But for some, I know the physical is important. So you know my age, but I'm slender, a hybrid of a few ethnicities, 5'10" on a good day, active, and very hygienic (shouldn't even have to fucking say that, but so many dudes are so grubby). I have a little facial hair, but no crazy beard, and I keep it trimmed. I do wear glasses, and I don't know why most of this shit matters. But whatever. I'm up for trading pictures because I'm not unrealistic. I do know that there has to be some physical attraction. But we've got to at least get past the first message.

Thanks for taking the time to consider. I hope you all have a good one.

Morachnus