Like how it would be a crime to not tell someone if you had an STD. I do try my best to stay indoors in general since it really effects me when I notice that biological small penis disgust response. I know its natural but I try my best to avoid it because I'm sensitive lol But I have a tough time genuinely giving up on love. But I am stuck between a rock and a hard place because on one hand...

I can be up front and tell them but I have heard that typically just comes off as insecure (even though thats by society's design). My other choice being just not say anything and see what happens. But that second option feels almost like a crime. Like I am purposely trying to traumatize someone by withholding that information. And to be clear, I understand I could probably find someone who is asexual but I have a pretty high sex drive. So I fear that a woman who is kinky/has high sex drive would be more likely to require a certain level of masculinity represented through their penis. I know masculinity is not just penis, but that's my focus for this post.

-What are your thoughts on being up front vs element of surprise?

-To the women, at what size does your response go from lust to pity? I suspect somewhere around average is where pity comes into play. I have a huge fear that I can't be lusted for.