Hello all,

I posted here a long time ago about my gender identity, and got some really great, affirming answers. Recently I’ve realised I’m probably gender fluid rather than GNC, and I have quite a defined “gender cycle”.

I’m now wondering how to describe my sexuality. I’ve always said I was heterosexual, as I’m only attracted to men. But I don’t think “androsexual” fits me as I’m attracted to both masculine(ish) men and feminine men/femboys.

To further complicate matters, I currently have a partner who is gender queer (AMAB). I’m open to relationships with nonbinary AMAB people as well.

What would be a more suitable label for myself? If I still identify as a GNC woman, heterosexual seems fine, as femboys/AMAB genderqueer & nonbinary people are still an opposite gender to me. But if I’m gender fluid, is there a more apt term?

Thanks in advance!