Basically, I’m a 28 yo cis woman and I’ve been questioning my sexuality for years. I had back to back 2-yr long relationships with men, and the first one (4 years ago) was with someone who really opened me up to trying new things (I was not super experienced in anything besides super vanilla sex) that I ended up liking, like pegging and anal play, and encouraged me to experiment with cis and trans women. I never did… there’s only been one woman I ever really wanted to do anything with… and then when he and I broke up, I ended up with someone who was truthfully very vanilla and not open to any experimentation, especially not outside of our relationship.

It was kind of torture, because I had this sexual need to top (almost a little dom-ish) that wasn’t being met. He was great, but there was definitely an unmet need that drove me a bit crazy. I ended up watching a ton of gay and trans women porn (for some reason watching cis women pegging hasn’t don’t it for me) on the nights I wasn’t with him. I loved watching men bottom and give oral, and when we would take breaks because the relationship just wasn’t healthy, I would get online and sext with bi men and loved every second of it…

While we were together, I didn’t really fantasize about women besides the one I had been interested in previously. She and I ended up having a very close friendship and never mentioned any of the setting that we’d done. Now that I’m free to explore, I haven’t really had any interest in starting that back up and I just want to be friends at this point. I still find her very attractive and she turns me on, but I don’t wanna mess up the friendship.

Idk for sure cus I’ve never tried anything with a woman, but I don’t really think I’m bi. I find women really attractive and can get a crush, but I’m not necessarily interested in taking anything anywhere…

What I’m starting to realize is that I’m majorly into guys to are bi, and I like using a strap to fantasize about having a penis. Like, gay and trans women porn is my favorite porn, and the thought of doing more of what I did with my first ex is really exciting to me. Maybe even something with two men? Idk!

I guess I’m wondering where y’all would put me on the spectrum of sexuality. I really don’t know much about this stuff, and I figured this would be a better place to ask than google.

Also, if there was anything offensive in here, it was out of ignorance and not malice, so please give me some education in a kind way 😊

TLDR: I’m a straight cus woman attracted to bisexual men and I love gay porn and I want to experiment with that for sure, but I’m just attracted to women and don’t wanna do anything. What category of sexuality would you put me in?