Is "primarily heterosexual" a thing? I am a cis (35F) woman and have been predominantly in heterosexual romantic/sexual relationships. I do have sexual attraction to women as well, and I prefer to watch lesbian porn. I do have some level of sexual/physical attraction to all genders but romantically have flocked toward men. I have physically been intimate with a handful of women, and it didn't feel any different than being with a man. However, when I consider being in a relationship with another woman, it's not appealing to me.

I wear pride clothes, jewelry etc, generally to flag myself as an ally and maybe to remove myself a bit from the heteronormative culture

I managed to dodge the question for awhile, but today somebody flat out asked me my sexuality. I think the masses assume I am a straight ally as I am married to a man. I deflected the question as it being an inappropriate topic (it was a coworker), but am now reflecting. I've never really given myself a label, but if I HAD to choose one I'm not exactly sure where on the spectrum I fall.

Interested in anyone with similar perspectives or any insight.