So have you ever noticed that women pass 'judgements' on men all the time. Oh he's so indecisive, why cant be more bold and show the other guy his place (without understanding the gravity of a situation), he's afraid to boldly challenge his boss and ask for stuff due etc. They basically judge any guy 'weak' if he displays any sign of momentary emotional weakness. Just look back at any dating experience / guide wherein they turned you down for being a too nice guy or just 'soft'. Now it doesn't matter if the guy is perhaps going thru temporary emotional shit, or is thinking a situation thru without reacting or has low self esteem. He is 'judged' as weak. Now turn it around. Every try calling out a low self esteem woman for the crazy bitch she is? You would have a million of them after you for 'judging' a poor emotional female. So thats how it is guys, face it. Wanted to know examples of stuff like this you've faced.