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Is there a term or psychological concept for fetishizing your partner's orgasm?
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Is there a term or concept for being super into simply witnessing - seeing, hearing, feeling - your partner's orgasm? I mean something like on the level of cuckolding, except it has nothing to do with a third party or humiliation. Just an extreme satisfaction at being present in some way for your partner's orgasm. One distinguishing feature would be that you still find it a satisfying erotic experience if you don't orgasm. (A lot of men, for example, report feeling frustrated and disappointed if they don't get to orgasm, suggesting that the experience of their partner's orgasm isn't primary for them.) I am separating this idea from the related idea of being into "making" your partner orgasm, because that is still in part about yourself and your own prowess (or about kinky control, etc.). I mean a kind of satisfaction where you enjoy being involved at whatever level but don't at all require it for mental satisfaction.

I know a lot of people will dismissively reply with some version of this is just normal, but hopefully others know what I mean.

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I agree with this. Iā€™m very, very into overstimulation, but i think a lot of guys would rather focus on the build-up and the tension of not cumming. I also know that not a ton of guys can handle overstim in the first place. But it makes me so weak.

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