Every single guy that I've come across that has bi sexual listed is not bi. They are always 100% straight. So, why do they lie? Are they just looking for a desperate gay man to send them some money? It's really sad. I always search for info about the inmates before contacting them and every time their profile says bi sexual, I find evidence that it's not true. They usually have a girlfriend or wife back home waiting for them and a child or children. One particular profile I came across on hotprisonpals states "Looking for a relationship with a man or woman" but on lostvault it states "Women only please". It's really frustrating because in the past I have written to guys claiming to be bi and then I end up wasting a J-Pay stamp on someone who doesn't even want to correspond with men.