It's ok to feel however you are feeling when you find out your pregnant. Even if it was planned your still aloud to feel scared, upset, nervous. I'm writing this because when I found out I was unexpectedly pregnant it was the biggest shock of mine and my partners life. We both separately thought about how we feel and what we wanted to do, then we decided to do a pros and cons list and although we only had one pro due to our current life we both looked at each other and knew we wanted to keep our baby. Now I'm 33 weeks pregnant and sometimes I feel guilty for even considering other options but Im glad we took the time to think it through.

No matter what you choose to do you are aloud to feel whatever you are feeling I need you to know that, because I wish I had someone to tell me that.