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Pregnancy sex is over rated and fricken difficult
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I'm 31 weeks, and we have literally had sex twice this whole time! We don't have very high sex drives because.of our medication. Of course when trying to conceive we made a point of trying harder because we wanted a baby

We also made a point of having sex again last night because it's been so long, and we like to feel that connection even if it isn't often. Bloody hell was it hard. He was going down on me and I can't exactly lay on my back, and every position I could be in was still uncomfortable. Baby moved throughout the whole thing which is distracting and kind of a turn off. And trying to use my tummy muscles and get any leverage was hard and made me worry about muscle separation, not to mention it was just hard to do.

As I was.told.by midwife the proper way to get up from laying down, to roll and push up with your arms, because sitting straight up is bad for muscle separation and it's also super hard. But can you still use them at all? Lol.

Sorry for TMI. Can't imagine having sex again unless it's very basic side laying. But even then feeling very limited by my belly. Does anyone else feel my pain? What positions do you think are best ?

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On full pelvic and bed rest. The last time I tried to do anything it hurt when I came close to finishing and had to stop then I went running to the bathroom to vomit. Ya it was no fun at all. It was all uncomfortable and too distracting to enjoy anything.

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