I've only had sex in relationships but in the seven relationships I had there was only one guy that wasn't quick. All the rest could last a few minutes at maximum with one guy being done within half a minute half the time. I'm quite proud of that. I'd like to think that is because of me and not because of them. The two guys with previous experience told me that it felt more sensative when they were in my vagina compared to previous women and I have heard one ex remark that later too. I know it's something I have no influence over but I like that it is like that. I don't want them to hold themselves back, I like making guys quick.

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Maybe it helps that I can't feel much myself and it's really hard for me to get aroused or get an orgasm. My first orgasm was only a few years with a powerful vibrator and without it, it can't be done. I don't really mind it that much as it is something I'm used to but maybe that plays a big part in why I appreciate quick sex over long lasting sex. For me sex is mostly focused on him and once he has ejaculated we're done as far as I'm concerned. I enjoy doing it but I wouldn't like it if it would take forever. I rather do it more often than for longer. I also think that is better for the relationship, as it is a moment together and a source of frustrations for many guys when it doesn't happen often.

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I do not consider myself good at sex, in fact I think the situation made me a bit lazy. But I like that I can be lazy, that it doesn't really matter, that my body does the work for me. I don't like doing a lot of different stuff as sex is for me the most fulfilling (as I still feel fulfilled when he orgasms in me) and it seems a bit pointless to me to do anthying else.

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So for me it's partly an ego boost and partly just practical. One ex gave me the nickname danger pussy which I low key like, even though I dislike the term pussy. Sometimes I wonder if my previous partners still think about me in that way. It feels flattering to think so. I'm proud of making guys quick!