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I think many of us - former porn addicts make a big mistake when starting to hate porn. In order to be really free from it we should stop hating it, we should just remove it from our lives, because it doesn't benefit us. You can make analogy with an ex-gf. The best way to remove her from your life is not to hate her, but forgive her and move on.
It's also like hating alcohol if you are an alcholic. Many people enjoy a beer from time to time and never overuse it. It's the same with porn. Believe it or not many men have a normal relationship with it , they watch from time to time, but never let it destroy their lifes. We are like alcoholics - we can't control our porn consumption.
But they are going to be always many women who will want to become porn actresses and people will always want to consume porn, because it makes them feel good. So stop hating porn, it's not going to benefit you. Yes , it's a fucked up industry. But many industries are fucked up. Do you know how many people die from alcohol abuse or tobacco consumption every year ? Should we start hating on alcohol and tobacco? No, don't hate them. If it's not beneficial for you, just stop consuming the product.
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