Wife and I love each other. We love fucking eachother. We love watching eachother fuck. etc. We also work together, raise some pretty read kids and deal with bills, beers and bongs but not necessarily in that order. So, normal secure and nothing is wrong....last time i asked the following i got picked apart about my "weak" marriage......Does this seem possible.

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Me: I'm a swinger leaning poly. I love sharing and I dont like holding my partner back. But i'm a big hearted soft. I not only have enough energy for two on going lovers but I have a big enough heart too. The older i get...and less i think with m y cock i realize im wanting double connection. She is the queen and will always be but she agrees that i can love someone else without losing our love.

Her: She is more like Non-Monogamous who will swing. She places sex in normal importance and therefore our life is non monogamous because well she is fucking hot and i'm well im a guy. For safety concerns she wont play alone but I've never said no to her ever. But she is more into adventure now then strange dick so swaps are more appealing then me sharing her with a buddy.

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So i know labels are bull shit. We are fidelis and that is in our marriage contract with each other. But, for my and sometiem her thought process it would be nice to admit Mars and Venus. Poly and NM or Swingers who are retired and horny? Shit....I want a second girl who we can count on all the time. She is down for dick like every once in a wild saturday....she gave me license to go pursue whatever...but im much more marektable with her.

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Can we find a weird medium? OR am I full of shit and just need two vags...lol.

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PS - she is bi friendly and I'm non romantic bisexual.