About 2 years ago my husband, friend and I had a threesome... Shortly later she informed me she was pregnant. My first thought is it was "ours" from that night. I was sure she told me it was her on again off again ex's and she sounded very sure so I left well enough alone. It has always nagged me though as the baby was born and grew.

Fast forward to now and about a week ago she shows me a picture that made her think her daughter was related to my husband and not her ex. Long story short we are getting a paternity test.

Anyone have any advice for me? We are pretty open minded people so raising her together isn't really too much of a worry. The telling our families and other children is. How do you explain that to a child? Also i wonder if my friend is still wanting a relationship with us. I've been tossing around the idea of being poly and i think my husband would be interested too... Idk if we are ready though. I am soooo confused and any info would be great!