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My ex broke up with me almost two months ago, because they wanted more, as in a relashionship and a fuck buddy so we just cut contact completely so I was going through pictures and all that. I used to take screeshots of funny and interesting things we used to talk about and I found something very interesting.
Fake names for the purpose of this. She has a friend, John, who at the time had a girlfriend named Amanda. And John is poly, Amanda isn't, so Amanda asked my ex how we navigated our mono-poly relashionship, and my ex answered that it wasn't a problem for her to be in a monogamous relashionship.
So yeah, it is a choice. It's a choice to leave something great to seek something mediocre and half-assed with a lot of people. It's a choice to not commit and put in the effort.
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People considering NM relationships always think they can control the resulting emotional attachments. Yet many of us require some emotional attachment to fully enjoy sex. It is a tricky dance!