Hey all! I've been on several (virtual) dates over the last few weeks with someone new, and I'm finding myself really falling for her. We have a great connection, great chemistry, and tons in common. We text every day and have grown very comfortable sharing real thoughts, feelings, and opinions with each other. We're planning our first in-person date, and I want to bring up the idea of becoming "official" (I'm 98% certain this topic is on her mind as well). This being her first experience with polyamory, however, I want to be absolutely certain we are on the same page before we enter into anything serious. What would you guys consider the musts of the "official talk"? What are some things you are sure to discuss that you feel may be overlooked by some?