So I broke up with a guy recently that I really cared about and I'm still a bit hung up on him. I've been trying to work through my feelings and it's been a comfort to me that my boyfriend, Bill, and I were doing great and really happy- coming up on our year anniversary he suggested we go away for the weekend and he booked a cabin for us next month.

Well then recently, he started making a big deal about how he can't text me when he's with his other girlfriend who is officially his primary. I've never gotten upset about his level of texting- I've not demanded attention and I totally get that we text each other when we can. I felt like I wasn't "allowed" to text him. I told him that it felt awkward and it hurt my feelings. I felt like a side piece.

That was Friday. This AM he said he has to reschedule our trip bc of how his other girlfriend would be alone and how she is going through a hard time. It feels like she's only OK if I'm a piece of meat for him to have sex with but not a whole person with feelings.

She has a whole-ass other boyfriend BTW and gets whole weekends with Bill all the time. I see him every other Monday night with occ overnights.

Should I bother trying with this guy? I really love him but my heart is so hurt.