I posted a few weeks (months?) ago asking for advice on my boyfriend who sprung on me that he wanted to be in a poly relationship with me and his ex (but he was the only one allowed to have multiple partners 🙄) everyone was telling me he was toxic and I should leave him. I spoke r him about it and he apologizes and told me he chooses me and he didn’t actually want to be with her he was just upset about not getting to see his kids all the time. I believed him. But today I found out he’s been discussing us still having a poly relationship with his ex and they’ve been discussing boundaries, rules, etc…without telling me. When I confronted him about it he got mad at his ex for telling me and kind of got upset with me for “misunderstanding” him. And that he was trying to give me time to get used to the idea before bringing it up again. And when I asked if me not wanting to be poly was a deal breaker he said he “didn’t know”, but only after I called him out on not answering the question the first time I asked. Which was a 360 from before And I just feel…idk betrayed? Because I believed him. And I feel manipulated. And like a back-up choice or like I’m just being included so they don’t hurt my feelings? Idk. I kind of want to break up with him, but idk if I’m being dramatic or…I’m not even sure if this is the right place to post this. Any advice is welcome, is this how this is supposed to work and I’m just being dramatic? 😅