Hi! I posted this in another sub, but here goes:

I am dating a guy who is in a polyamorous relationship with his wife. His wife has a boyfriend who lives with them. They’ve engaged in threesomes together, and with other people prior to this boyfriend now. So they’re not new to this stuff.

So, I have always identified as straight. I have always been attracted to men. I’ve only dated men. The thought of being with a woman never was a thought in my mind.

Then I go out with his wife - who is super cool and fun to chill with - and we had fun! We went out again and, at the end of the night, I kissed her. She immediately reciprocated. And I LIKED IT. I don’t understand how I went from not thinking about girls ever to now being somewhat sexually attracted to this person.

That night, she sent me a text saying that the night was “amazing” and sent me a very revealing pic of herself. 🫣 It didn’t come up again in conversation though…and so it’s just sitting out there with no resolution.

I asked the guy I’m dating if she said anything and he said yes, and that they want to have a 3some with me…

My questions are: - Won’t this be messy? - How do I go from straight to bi-curious all of a sudden? - Is it possible it’s just the situation that makes me attracted to her, or am I honestly attracted to her?

Ugh I am sorry for the confusion - I’m just so confused!