I'm getting back into the dating game. I've met a wonderful person who claims she is nm and I'm monogamous. However, I've noticed that she only ends up sleeping with others when she's intoxicated and has had cocaine. This seems to only happen at a specific time of day. She'll tell me the episode but isn't able to relay much of the info and I like what she tells me but she can't recall the details ever, just bits and pieces. And I'm realizing that I'd like to run the same experiments like 3sm,bdsm, etc but with only her and no one else. she's reluctant to let me do that on my own. But when we go on dates, it's absolutely magnificent and between the sheets there's a high sense of heat. my question : Has anyone else ever faced this and is this what nm really is?