Im 23F dating 27M for a few months. We connected deeply and from the start we communicated about how we want a secure relationship. I had an open relationship before. I really enjoyed some aspects of it, new people, adventures, seducing mind games. But I couldn’t trust that person enough and I didn’t feel safe with him. I wanted transparency in the relationship and he couldn’t do that. So when it ended I felt like I got more mature and wanted an empathetic, caring, mature partner who I can trust and feel safe with. But now with the new partner I feel like I’m lacking the excitment, adventure, novelty. I told him from the start that I never was actually monogamous and it feels like he accepted it but told me that he would feel bad if I had any intimacy with other people. The problem is that I feel like some of my needs aren’t being met and can’t be met only with him and I really want to have other relationships/romantic adventures but I’d feel bad for cheating and lying to him. I respect him and don’t want to cause this harm. Any advice on how to have a talk about this, maybe some were in similar situations?