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Do other women find the term GGG a turn off in a dating bio?
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Do other women find the term GGG a turn off in a dating bio? I think it comes from a good place. A generous place. I don't think these people are necessarily bad or gross.

And I think if you have a serious long-term partner, especially if you are monogamous. You should try to give things a try with them. Again, especially if they have no option to find another partner who is into it. If they are locked in with you for life, you hopefully offer a bit of generosity to try things that you aren't 100% sure about.

And honestly, if my serious long-term partner came to and told me his life long fantasy was for me to sit on a birthday cake while he watched and jerked off on my face, I'd do it. Is it my thing? No. Would I feel silly? Yes. Would I try it for him? Sure. I'm "game"

But if I just met you on a dating app and your thing is for me to sit on a birthday cake while you watch. No. I'm not game. Pass. I wish you luck finding someone who has that thing. They are out there! Go find them and have the time of your life. But I'm not your girl.

I'm not necessarily game with a brand new partner or a hookup. I'm looking for someone who shares my desires for a mutual overlap of desires. But I'm not game for much outside of what I already desire. And, in fact, many things I will do with a long-term trusted partner like bondage, anal, swinging and other stuff are not automatically on the table for every new partner. Maybe they never will be. I'll be kind to you. I'll work hard to give you pleasure. I won't be selfish or shame you.

But I won't be "game."

And seeing this on someone's profile makes we worry that they expect that. If they are game for anything, great. I'm simply not. I am interested in what I like and want to find someone compatible. Not someone game.

I think men don't fully consider this when they put it in their profile.

An explanation of the phrase for those aren't familiar:

Good, giving, game.

https://www.psypost.org/good-giving-game-research-confirms-dan-savages-sex-advice-works/

And an example of they guys I'm trying to avoid right here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamoryadvice/s/chGtC9VtET

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