Yeah throwaway because I'm kind of embarrassed to be asking this question.

So, in this thread there was some advice about finding women for casual threesomes. However, in my opinion, it was written from a couple perspective.

I am a solo poly man with several partners, all women. I would like to explore FFM threesomes, and my partners are not interested in having sex with each other.

I guess it's not important to ask why I want to do this. It's just a kink I have.

I will summarize the problem from my perspective, maybe someone has some relevant experience to share.

I have one partner who is interested in this kink, but she's married to someone else and it's not important enough to her that she would do anything about it. Also she is very inexperienced with women. We tried it once and it was kind of cringe. I think her first time exploring with another women would best be without me.

I have one partner who's not interested in this at all. She's using some kink websites to set up a gang bang for herself.

I have a long distance partner who likes to play with hetero couples. But she's not interested in doing this with me when she visits because she would rather spend one-on-one time with me.

I have a solo poly FWB, but she's only interested in threesomes with men right now.

I have three other FWBs that are married to other people and only rarely available.

I have another FWB that I make porn with for her Only Fans. But she lives in another city, and her friends that do this would only be interested if we film it, and anyway they also live in the other city. It's not really going to happen.

So the standard approach of setting up a linked profile on Feeld won't work. Nobody wants to link.

And the approach of going to a sex positive event also doesn't really work. I go by myself to these events and either nothing happens or I meet someone new for a one-on-one encounter. But that just leads to either dating someone new that I don't have time for, or nothing.

I also thought about going "as a couple" to a sex positive event. But this also doesn't really work because nobody really wants to do this with me.

I'm really not sure what steps to take in order to make this happen. The only idea I have left is to set up an entirely new sex positive event. But this seems like opening up a whole different can of worms with power relationships. And a shitload of work too.