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new person I’m seeing texts back slowly
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I (F/ 26) recently posted on here and mentioned that I am feeling excited and happy about a new connection I made recently. We’ve been on 3 dates so far, have plans this weekend for a 4th, and I know there is mutual interest between us. We do text a bit between seeing each other but she usually takes between 6-24 hours to respond to my texts. I’m trying really hard not to assign meaning to this (I.e. she is not interested in me) but I’m finding it really difficult.

She is someone who is very open and honest, and it inspires me to be more of that with her too. I’m wondering if it’s too soon to bring up my desire to communicate more between seeing each other. I know she doesn’t owe me anything and we haven’t declared our commitment to each other yet, so I just don’t want to be too much.

Edit: I’m also afraid in general to admit to her that I have been feeling anxious / insecure about our relationship thus far, for example, if she were to ask me how I’m feeling about “us”, unprompted by me. I know logically that things are going well and there is nothing “bad” about her response time.

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