I (29 M) paid for Feeld Majestic from December to March or so and had very little success on it. Some of it was my fault - I cropped out my face for most of that time - but I only had 3 or 4 matches, all of which either dropped off or never responded to my message. I get matches consistently enough on Hinge, so I don’t think it’s necessarily my looks, at least. Obviously, it could be something on my profile in the past, but there’s no use in dwelling on it if so.

Nevertheless, I’ve gotten a clearer understanding of the monogamish structure I’m seeking and dating solo poly until and unless I find that. I list that now and am cautiously optimistic it could lead me to more matches, but there’s jury’s still out. It’s made me wonder whether I should mull over a subscription again, though, especially since I’d be putting a better foot forward this time around.

Have fellow solo poly and/or monogamish folks seeking primary partners found luck, whether by paying or for free? What worked for you? I’d appreciate if you could share your gender(s) and relationship status at the time of your search, for my awareness. Thanks in advance!