This is the most commonly repeated falsehood in discussions about ENM.

The truth is that people who seek casual sex with men get more attention than people who seek casual sex with women. Its an important distinction.

Men like to complain about this problem in a way that makes it sounds like something bad is happening to men.

Instead of realizing its more about women not being interested in casual sex and having to wonder if thats because something bad is happening to women who want casual sex.

But contemplating that question is the first step to being more appealing to women want casual sex. So the irony is supreme.

Its hilarious to see men get angry at the patriarchy will they uphold it and pretend it only harms them.