I’m 46F, cis and pansexual, and my new lover is 34M, non binary, pan and very gender fluid. From the beginning they’ve expressed their desire to be “topped” by me not only in the bedroom, but out. Like “commands” or “assignments” by text during the day.

This is all new territory for me. I’ve never engaged in any power dynamic play outside of sex before.

I’d love to hear some ideas from other subs about what they love when their Dom/ Domme do this.

I’d especially love to hear from submissive men who love to be topped by women and enjoy exploring their femininity.

Outside of asking for specific spicy pics or requesting wearing certain clothing or lingerie, I don’t know what to ask! Lol. Thank you!