A repost, but I'm feeling it today!!!

Hi, I'm henri and I'm a slut.

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I'm in a polyamorous relationship. My primary partner was previously in a polyamorous relationship with his primary for 20 years. I was previously in a primary partnership that was at times poly and at times only open for casual. Before that, I had another live in primary partner and was polyamorous with them for years. I've been doing polyamory since the mid 90s. Long before I knew the word.

My current situation is one romantic partner with the freedom to have sex or romance with anyone I choose. We require no heads up or permission to date or fuck others. No vetos. No advance notification of dates. We started as polyamorous. Neither of us has ever done monogamy. We are firmly and 100% polyamorous. Out to friends as family as such.

I'd love another partner. Dating is hard and takes time. I also gave limited time and energy. I didn't date for a long time during COVID. So here I am. Decidedly polyamorous and experienced with multiple romantic partners. Currently dating after a long break.

All polyamorous here.

I'm also a huge slut. I love sex. I love casual sex. I will fuck a sexy stranger that I meet at a bar on a Tuesday night if it works out. I love casual dating. I'm on several dating apps. I absolutely fuck on the first or second date. Im happy with casual partners that become nothing more than a fuck or progress to love.

I also swing, do threesomes, and go to orgies and various shenanigans with my primary partner. I did this with my previous primary partner as well. Some of my best friends are also casual fuck buddies.

I have a lot of sex partners. I'd be hard pressed to answer the question, "How many sex partners do you have?" because I have folks I've fucked a few times with no guarantee of more in the future (but its possible!). And I fuck new people all the time. So the answer is lots! Its a moving number. A lady we have threesomes with and thought moved on resurfaced. I wouldn't have counted her last week, but now....maybe we will fuck again. Who knows. Its more of a scheduling issue to be fair.

I could guess 10ish regular folks if I had to guess. But, its possible I night fuck 4 new people this weekend. So I loathe to put a number on it. It doesn't feel honest whatever I say.

I think "slut and hedonist" is an accurate description.

My sluttiness doesn't negate my polyamory. Nor does my polyamory negate my sluttiness.

There is no magic number of sex partners that makes me single or not polyamorous. There is no magic sex act that renders me not polyamorous. Or that negates the seriousness of my romantic relationship.

This is a point of confusion for non-sluts.

Telling someone their romantic relationships aren't real if they have casual sex is silly. Telling someone their polyamory isn't real if they have casual sex is also silly.

And it confuses new people and advice seekers. Its shamey and sex negative and ignorant.

It shouldn't be. A person can be and can do many things all in the same life.

A fun message from your local happy slut.

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