My husband's girlfriend is going through a rough time lately (rocky marriage, terminally ill mother, 50 hour work weeks, etc.). One of the ways she shows affection and love, and generally feels helpful is by making food. I have a high intensity job and two kids and a stupid busy schedule (yesterday my lunch came entirely out of a vending machine... and not a fancy kind of vending machine). Last night she dropped provisions at my house. This morning I ate her overnight oats. For lunch I'll have her soup and homemade naan. She is a wonderful person and I'm doing what I can to support her. Today that looks like sending her selfies of me eating the delicious food she made my family. I hope she feels as loved as I do.