So I made a throwaway account incase my partner sees this but l'm in a weird spot with my relationship.

I've been with her for over a year and I'm very much in love with her and want to do things to make her happy because she's done exactly that for me. I've never felt so vulnerable with anyone else l've been with.

I have this issue with the idea of poly because I have my own insecurities but I'm working them and currently in therapy for that among just genuinely thinking most people should go anyways.

But yesterday in my session I started bringing up how my partner is more traditionally into poly relationships and we touched on it a little bit surrounding my insecurities with the topic and that in my next session we'd discuss more. My partner has referred to me as her nesting partner if we were to move forward with this idea but only if I was comfortable and ready.

My issue stems from feelings of not wanting to share my partner and the feeling as if I'm not enough or worst that I can be replaced. And I know it's kinda a patriarchal concept of claiming someone as mine because she is her own person and I never want to feel as if I'm holding her back but I'm al grappling with this fear of losing the one persor. let myself feel safe enough to be genuinely vulnerable with.